<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post2844639341035063870..comments</id><updated>2009-07-08T20:11:51.612-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Blogs Are Stupid: Killing Me Softly</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/feeds/2844639341035063870/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25'/><author><name>Blog Antagonist</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09378330862349859998</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>29</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-5299879662492519505</id><published>2009-07-08T20:11:51.612-05:00</published><updated>2009-07-08T20:11:51.612-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I ma sorry for the pain and worry you have right n...</title><summary type='text'>I ma sorry for the pain and worry you have right now. But I am so happy you all have each other.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/5299879662492519505'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/5299879662492519505'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html?showComment=1247101911612#c5299879662492519505' title=''/><author><name>Veronica Mitchell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06387774344892567897</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2844639341035063870' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/2844639341035063870' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-47271759926880998</id><published>2009-07-02T13:57:19.529-05:00</published><updated>2009-07-02T13:57:19.529-05:00</updated><title type='text'>As my husband and I secretly emptied our kids' pig...</title><summary type='text'>As my husband and I secretly emptied our kids&amp;#39; piggy banks of their change to pay for gas and groceries, we could barely look at each other. It hurts. It hurts so bad, but life is never easy, is it?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I feel your pain. I hope for you, and all of us, that we can dig ourselves out of this...</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/47271759926880998'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/47271759926880998'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html?showComment=1246561039529#c47271759926880998' title=''/><author><name>Tracey - Just Another Mommy Blog</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09606831315390042198</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2844639341035063870' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/2844639341035063870' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-1699145310612368965</id><published>2009-06-30T19:03:13.085-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-30T19:03:13.085-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I am so sorry, and hope things work out well.
I lo...</title><summary type='text'>I am so sorry, and hope things work out well.&lt;br /&gt;I lost my well paying job of 9 years, just over a year ago. Like your husband&amp;#39;s job, it was our family&amp;#39;s sole income. I am back to work now, but the financial impact is far from over. I have truly learned that &amp;quot;a home, the cars, the possessions that brand us as respectable middle class people&amp;quot; are just things. It is the people </summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/1699145310612368965'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/1699145310612368965'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html?showComment=1246406593085#c1699145310612368965' title=''/><author><name>Scott O</name><uri>http://stinkymouse.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2844639341035063870' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/2844639341035063870' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-543846136785393314</id><published>2009-06-29T21:59:29.580-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-29T21:59:29.580-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I am so sorry. I lost my job in January and just r...</title><summary type='text'>I am so sorry. I lost my job in January and just recently found another one. While my husband was still working, he is a teacher and well that speaks for itself. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like yours, my kids were absolutely amazing and several good lessons were learned. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am sending thoughts your way that something even better comes along for your husband.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/543846136785393314'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/543846136785393314'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html?showComment=1246330769580#c543846136785393314' title=''/><author><name>Flybunny</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2844639341035063870' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/2844639341035063870' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-1853698694521943724</id><published>2009-06-29T07:10:11.989-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-29T07:10:11.989-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I'm so sorry you're going through this.  What wond...</title><summary type='text'>I&amp;#39;m so sorry you&amp;#39;re going through this.  What wonderful kids though.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/1853698694521943724'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/1853698694521943724'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html?showComment=1246277411989#c1853698694521943724' title=''/><author><name>Woman with kids</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03097328663857446991</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2844639341035063870' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/2844639341035063870' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-3968371424044603709</id><published>2009-06-27T16:17:42.705-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-27T16:17:42.705-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I am so sorry.</title><summary type='text'>I am so sorry.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/3968371424044603709'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/3968371424044603709'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html?showComment=1246137462705#c3968371424044603709' title=''/><author><name>Maureen @ Wisconsin Mommy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12285772583714115766</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2844639341035063870' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/2844639341035063870' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-9116759485534837502</id><published>2009-06-27T12:36:21.234-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-27T12:36:21.234-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Oh BA, I'm so sorry. I hope something comes throug...</title><summary type='text'>Oh BA, I&amp;#39;m so sorry. I hope something comes through for your family soon. Hugs.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/9116759485534837502'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/9116759485534837502'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html?showComment=1246124181234#c9116759485534837502' title=''/><author><name>Fairly Odd Mother</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11974404093257620566</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2844639341035063870' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/2844639341035063870' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2765640293252518096</id><published>2009-06-27T08:09:35.938-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-27T08:09:35.938-05:00</updated><title type='text'>so sorry to hear your news. we're all pulling for ...</title><summary type='text'>so sorry to hear your news. we&amp;#39;re all pulling for you and your family. the love and strength your boys are showing now is a family trait it seems, inspiring, how you pull each other up.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/2765640293252518096'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/2765640293252518096'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html?showComment=1246108175938#c2765640293252518096' title=''/><author><name>K2</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08516353402576890822</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='17184008991100732313'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2844639341035063870' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/2844639341035063870' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-5194082262549712435</id><published>2009-06-26T22:33:35.528-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-26T22:33:35.528-05:00</updated><title type='text'>oh, honey.  crap. i could just feel your heart sin...</title><summary type='text'>oh, honey.  crap. i could just feel your heart sinking in this post.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/5194082262549712435'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/5194082262549712435'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html?showComment=1246073615528#c5194082262549712435' title=''/><author><name>wheelsonthebus</name><uri>http://wheelsonthebus.wordpress.com/</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2844639341035063870' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/2844639341035063870' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-7890143289094516785</id><published>2009-06-26T21:04:36.925-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-26T21:04:36.925-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I'm so sorry to hear that your husband lost his jo...</title><summary type='text'>I&amp;#39;m so sorry to hear that your husband lost his job. That has to be a huge stress for your whole family. Sounds like you have a couple of awesome boys, though, and the family sticking together is what will see you all through. My sincere best wishes to all of you.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/7890143289094516785'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/7890143289094516785'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html?showComment=1246068276925#c7890143289094516785' title=''/><author><name>Sharon</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13417520848464134419</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2844639341035063870' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/2844639341035063870' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2722173862355830362</id><published>2009-06-26T20:44:18.144-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-26T20:44:18.144-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Shit, BA. I'm so sorry.</title><summary type='text'>Shit, BA. I&amp;#39;m so sorry.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/2722173862355830362'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/2722173862355830362'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html?showComment=1246067058144#c2722173862355830362' title=''/><author><name>mamatulip</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02692442843330582571</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2844639341035063870' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/2844639341035063870' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-1887004432721037824</id><published>2009-06-26T15:05:45.589-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-26T15:05:45.589-05:00</updated><title type='text'>You're so right.  I've just recently been reading ...</title><summary type='text'>You&amp;#39;re so right.  I&amp;#39;ve just recently been reading your posts, but you&amp;#39;re clearly a smart and strong family.  I&amp;#39;m sorry to hear your husband lost that job; here&amp;#39;s hoping there&amp;#39;s a better one lurking around the corner (or wherever you&amp;#39;d all like to be)!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By the way, I love your Pet Issues/Causes.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/1887004432721037824'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/1887004432721037824'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html?showComment=1246046745589#c1887004432721037824' title=''/><author><name>a Chris</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2844639341035063870' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/2844639341035063870' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-5400708660632905722</id><published>2009-06-26T13:19:37.794-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-26T13:19:37.794-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Ooof.  I'm speechless.  Thinking of you.</title><summary type='text'>Ooof.  I&amp;#39;m speechless.  Thinking of you.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/5400708660632905722'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/5400708660632905722'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html?showComment=1246040377794#c5400708660632905722' title=''/><author><name>Trenches of Mommyhood</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07257891014401157085</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2844639341035063870' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/2844639341035063870' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-8657949145001448878</id><published>2009-06-26T13:05:22.721-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-26T13:05:22.721-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I'm sorry to read that your husband has joined the...</title><summary type='text'>I&amp;#39;m sorry to read that your husband has joined the ranks of oh, so many others.  But it&amp;#39;s joy to hear how your sons did what they could to lift you up.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;BUT, maybe this will be the silver lining you need to get moved back home?  And if there is any remote possibility you&amp;#39;d lose your home, please market it first.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/8657949145001448878'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/8657949145001448878'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html?showComment=1246039522721#c8657949145001448878' title=''/><author><name>em</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05190719714195101825</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2844639341035063870' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/2844639341035063870' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2736858180302207209</id><published>2009-06-26T09:14:02.468-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-26T09:14:02.468-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I'm with Jenn ~ your boys are amazing!  
I'm so so...</title><summary type='text'>I&amp;#39;m with Jenn ~ your boys are amazing!  &lt;br /&gt;I&amp;#39;m so sorry about your husband&amp;#39;s job... I hope something turns up soon, Mama!</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/2736858180302207209'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/2736858180302207209'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html?showComment=1246025642468#c2736858180302207209' title=''/><author><name>Amy Y</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06303953793008491241</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2844639341035063870' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/2844639341035063870' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-9201902210673164312</id><published>2009-06-26T07:23:32.338-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-26T07:23:32.338-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I'm so, so sorry BA.  We went through this last ye...</title><summary type='text'>I&amp;#39;m so, so sorry BA.  We went through this last year; our miracle was that I got a job almost immediately after my husband lost his.  I hope your miracle comes through just as quickly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And your boys are freaking amazing.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/9201902210673164312'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/9201902210673164312'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html?showComment=1246019012338#c9201902210673164312' title=''/><author><name>The Woman Formerly Known as Jenn</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03779452548906403839</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2844639341035063870' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/2844639341035063870' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-6083223672229549840</id><published>2009-06-26T05:41:23.229-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-26T05:41:23.229-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Very sorry to hear the news about your husband's j...</title><summary type='text'>Very sorry to hear the news about your husband&amp;#39;s job, but not surprised that your kids were heartbreaking (in a good way)! My daughter was similarly sweet the last time I lost a job (my occupation is way off the edge of recession-proof).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thinking of your family and hoping your husband finds something new soon.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/6083223672229549840'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/6083223672229549840'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html?showComment=1246012883229#c6083223672229549840' title=''/><author><name>wyo</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04036067510719906530</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2844639341035063870' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/2844639341035063870' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-8230347149435846954</id><published>2009-06-26T04:03:03.220-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-26T04:03:03.220-05:00</updated><title type='text'>So so sorry to hear your news
Pol x</title><summary type='text'>So so sorry to hear your news&lt;br /&gt;Pol x</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/8230347149435846954'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/8230347149435846954'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html?showComment=1246006983220#c8230347149435846954' title=''/><author><name>Polgara</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09778883002754253095</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15352820441222908026'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2844639341035063870' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/2844639341035063870' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-748292645049285423</id><published>2009-06-26T00:28:10.555-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-26T00:28:10.555-05:00</updated><title type='text'>well, fuck.</title><summary type='text'>well, fuck.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/748292645049285423'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/748292645049285423'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html?showComment=1245994090555#c748292645049285423' title=''/><author><name>flutter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11828689769747130419</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2844639341035063870' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/2844639341035063870' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2289511568614924167</id><published>2009-06-25T22:25:16.845-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-25T22:25:16.845-05:00</updated><title type='text'>That just sucks, but you have amazing kids.  I hop...</title><summary type='text'>That just sucks, but you have amazing kids.  I hope this tumultuous time is short for your family.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/2289511568614924167'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/2289511568614924167'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html?showComment=1245986716845#c2289511568614924167' title=''/><author><name>Magi</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06377657859658478082</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2844639341035063870' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/2844639341035063870' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-3634740958414252233</id><published>2009-06-25T21:36:41.869-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-25T21:36:41.869-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Oh, shit, BA.  I'm sorry!  I hope something comes ...</title><summary type='text'>Oh, shit, BA.  I&amp;#39;m sorry!  I hope something comes along very, very soon.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And your kids?  That was so sweet.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/3634740958414252233'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/3634740958414252233'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html?showComment=1245983801869#c3634740958414252233' title=''/><author><name>OmegaMom</name><uri>http://omegamom.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2844639341035063870' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/2844639341035063870' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-5448532997257571204</id><published>2009-06-25T20:56:30.183-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-25T20:56:30.183-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Wow.  I'm so sorry.  Your boys are amazing.  I've ...</title><summary type='text'>Wow.  I&amp;#39;m so sorry.  Your boys are amazing.  I&amp;#39;ve been in your shoes.  It sucks, it stings, it frightens you to the core.  Sorry for the cliche, but you will get through this.  We did and amazingly are better for it.  You will be, too.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/5448532997257571204'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/5448532997257571204'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html?showComment=1245981390183#c5448532997257571204' title=''/><author><name>Ellieranc</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2844639341035063870' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/2844639341035063870' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-5864102745587657594</id><published>2009-06-25T20:46:30.204-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-25T20:46:30.204-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Thinking of you, and ditto previous commenters tha...</title><summary type='text'>Thinking of you, and ditto previous commenters that another door will open for you and dear husband income wise.  Vibes that this period of your lives is EXTREMELY short.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/5864102745587657594'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/5864102745587657594'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html?showComment=1245980790204#c5864102745587657594' title=''/><author><name>Kathryn in NZ</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09931622036835818243</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2844639341035063870' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/2844639341035063870' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-7650114470878628276</id><published>2009-06-25T20:01:37.904-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-25T20:01:37.904-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I'm in tears for so many reasons. Geez do we have ...</title><summary type='text'>I&amp;#39;m in tears for so many reasons. Geez do we have to remember to count every single blessing every single day.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;((hugs)) my friend.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/7650114470878628276'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/7650114470878628276'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html?showComment=1245978097904#c7650114470878628276' title=''/><author><name>Amy Sue Nathan @ Suburban Kvetch</name><uri>http://suburbankvetch.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2844639341035063870' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/2844639341035063870' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-1980190353112098821</id><published>2009-06-25T19:06:32.658-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-25T19:06:32.658-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I am so sorry your husband's job loss - I hope one...</title><summary type='text'>I am so sorry your husband&amp;#39;s job loss - I hope one or both of you find something soon so the gap between incomes isn&amp;#39;t too long.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/1980190353112098821'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/2844639341035063870/comments/default/1980190353112098821'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html?showComment=1245974792658#c1980190353112098821' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/06/killing-me-softly.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2844639341035063870' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/2844639341035063870' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>