<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post3638575502598984253..comments</id><updated>2011-06-12T20:37:09.314-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Blogs Are Stupid: Reflections on Motherhood; the Mystery of Boys</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/feeds/3638575502598984253/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/3638575502598984253/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/05/reflections-on-motherhood-mystery-of.html'/><author><name>Blog Antagonist</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09378330862349859998</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-1-4lMOrg5hQ/TZ81QqOeJ8I/AAAAAAAAAso/pikfk6ZxbDI/s220/Blogprofile1.bmp'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>9</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-7348610911938466532</id><published>2011-06-11T20:21:27.943-05:00</published><updated>2011-06-11T20:21:27.943-05:00</updated><title type='text'>When I was pregnant w/DD I was so thrilled when we...</title><summary type='text'>When I was pregnant w/DD I was so thrilled when we found out she was going to be a girl. I just couldn&amp;#39;t feature myself the mother of a boy. When I was pregnant 5 years later w/DS, I just wanted a healthy baby. We found out his gender shortly before he was born, and over time I found that what a friend had told me was true: Boys are yummy! Very grateful for both.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/3638575502598984253/comments/default/7348610911938466532'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/3638575502598984253/comments/default/7348610911938466532'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/05/reflections-on-motherhood-mystery-of.html?showComment=1307841687943#c7348610911938466532' title=''/><author><name>Gurukarm</name><uri>http://karmamusings.wordpress.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/05/reflections-on-motherhood-mystery-of.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-3638575502598984253' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/3638575502598984253' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1709535074'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-6229533400008485815</id><published>2011-05-11T10:12:11.059-05:00</published><updated>2011-05-11T10:12:11.059-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I have a 3-year-old girl and am pregnant with a bo...</title><summary type='text'>I have a 3-year-old girl and am pregnant with a boy. I am TERRIFIED, and I think even my husband is a little nervous. I don&amp;#39;t know the first thing about boys.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/3638575502598984253/comments/default/6229533400008485815'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/3638575502598984253/comments/default/6229533400008485815'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/05/reflections-on-motherhood-mystery-of.html?showComment=1305126731059#c6229533400008485815' title=''/><author><name>Rosie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04615807726263785629</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/05/reflections-on-motherhood-mystery-of.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-3638575502598984253' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/3638575502598984253' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-821411504'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-5906285842554808164</id><published>2011-05-10T12:32:22.005-05:00</published><updated>2011-05-10T12:32:22.005-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I am very grateful for having boys, although I onc...</title><summary type='text'>I am very grateful for having boys, although I once longed for a girl.  Working with Middle School kids has helped me understand that I was meant to be a mom of boys.  I just seem to be able to tolerate boy drama better than girl drama.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But I hope my kiddos don&amp;#39;t stop communicating with me.  I love the way you handled this and I&amp;#39;m glad I get to watch you negotiate the path of</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/3638575502598984253/comments/default/5906285842554808164'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/3638575502598984253/comments/default/5906285842554808164'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/05/reflections-on-motherhood-mystery-of.html?showComment=1305048742005#c5906285842554808164' title=''/><author><name>Amy Y</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06303953793008491241</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_imVQ0KqgjjU/SkOGa-rA5RI/AAAAAAAACHM/JdY-8Re7Gww/S220/Sunglasses.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/05/reflections-on-motherhood-mystery-of.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-3638575502598984253' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/3638575502598984253' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1484058825'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-1210202512356739078</id><published>2011-05-10T05:35:02.956-05:00</published><updated>2011-05-10T05:35:02.956-05:00</updated><title type='text'>boys are a trip, there&amp;#39;s no doubt about it! ev...</title><summary type='text'>boys are a trip, there&amp;#39;s no doubt about it! even at 28, 24, and 18, they are bright but mysterious souls. and i&amp;#39;m with you, you can&amp;#39;t push it. really enjoyed this post!</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/3638575502598984253/comments/default/1210202512356739078'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/3638575502598984253/comments/default/1210202512356739078'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/05/reflections-on-motherhood-mystery-of.html?showComment=1305023702956#c1210202512356739078' title=''/><author><name>Chris</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16877391949180535022</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/05/reflections-on-motherhood-mystery-of.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-3638575502598984253' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/3638575502598984253' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1051203817'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-9219515051882911256</id><published>2011-05-09T11:33:39.350-05:00</published><updated>2011-05-09T11:33:39.350-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I would SO suck at raising girls. I don&amp;#39;t know...</title><summary type='text'>I would SO suck at raising girls. I don&amp;#39;t know how my mom survived raising me. All I can say is Yay Boys!</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/3638575502598984253/comments/default/9219515051882911256'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/3638575502598984253/comments/default/9219515051882911256'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/05/reflections-on-motherhood-mystery-of.html?showComment=1304958819350#c9219515051882911256' title=''/><author><name>Julie</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/05/reflections-on-motherhood-mystery-of.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-3638575502598984253' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/3638575502598984253' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1074464062'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2476593452243584133</id><published>2011-05-09T06:47:55.227-05:00</published><updated>2011-05-09T06:47:55.227-05:00</updated><title type='text'>OY! Heaven HELP ME!  I have one of each. Yes, the ...</title><summary type='text'>OY! Heaven HELP ME!  I have one of each. Yes, the drama is tiring. The boy is young, but details are few and far between.  The problem I see?  I am an NOT PATIENT.  Great, just flippin&amp;#39; great! Awesome post.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/3638575502598984253/comments/default/2476593452243584133'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/3638575502598984253/comments/default/2476593452243584133'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/05/reflections-on-motherhood-mystery-of.html?showComment=1304941675227#c2476593452243584133' title=''/><author><name>Any name</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13911874028768251056</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/05/reflections-on-motherhood-mystery-of.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-3638575502598984253' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/3638575502598984253' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-129177973'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-1602248056203300145</id><published>2011-05-09T03:57:16.200-05:00</published><updated>2011-05-09T03:57:16.200-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I understand this post so well - I have three boys...</title><summary type='text'>I understand this post so well - I have three boys and yes they are a strange breed, but I too couldn&amp;#39;t cope with the drama, histrionics and bitching.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Although when they start bringing home cars and motorbikes and doing crazy stupid boy things I sometimes long for ballet slippers and dolls :-)</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/3638575502598984253/comments/default/1602248056203300145'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/3638575502598984253/comments/default/1602248056203300145'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/05/reflections-on-motherhood-mystery-of.html?showComment=1304931436200#c1602248056203300145' title=''/><author><name>Fiona</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16151064836369618082</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/05/reflections-on-motherhood-mystery-of.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-3638575502598984253' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/3638575502598984253' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1437223780'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-3988554074554523949</id><published>2011-05-08T21:20:34.553-05:00</published><updated>2011-05-08T21:20:34.553-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Girls can be like this too, but are into more dram...</title><summary type='text'>Girls can be like this too, but are into more drama than I like. It&amp;#39;s exhausting! They pick their moments to share and it&amp;#39;s usually at the least convenient time. (midnight?)</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/3638575502598984253/comments/default/3988554074554523949'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/3638575502598984253/comments/default/3988554074554523949'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/05/reflections-on-motherhood-mystery-of.html?showComment=1304907634553#c3988554074554523949' title=''/><author><name>Margaret</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17197599882756386184</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/05/reflections-on-motherhood-mystery-of.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-3638575502598984253' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/3638575502598984253' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-290442634'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-3182681801576659350</id><published>2011-05-08T18:57:20.429-05:00</published><updated>2011-05-08T18:57:20.429-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I am the mother of three boys.  The not-talking th...</title><summary type='text'>I am the mother of three boys.  The not-talking thing drives me crazy! Thanks for the reminder to exercise patience and discreetness. That works a lot better!</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/3638575502598984253/comments/default/3182681801576659350'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/3638575502598984253/comments/default/3182681801576659350'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/05/reflections-on-motherhood-mystery-of.html?showComment=1304899040429#c3182681801576659350' title=''/><author><name>Catch the Kids</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00451875041973822074</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='02947369787566065321'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='18' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_7hYxcZ_IHzg/TBTdFDPDVcI/AAAAAAAABQ8/cwNLy7VJOtE/S220/Maria-Sydney+Writing+Course+Photo.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/05/reflections-on-motherhood-mystery-of.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-3638575502598984253' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/3638575502598984253' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1326842669'/></entry></feed>
