<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post7717293291877748703..comments</id><updated>2012-02-19T21:23:32.590-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Blogs Are Stupid: Present</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/feeds/7717293291877748703/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/7717293291877748703/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/12/present.html'/><author><name>Blog Antagonist</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09378330862349859998</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-1-4lMOrg5hQ/TZ81QqOeJ8I/AAAAAAAAAso/pikfk6ZxbDI/s220/Blogprofile1.bmp'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>12</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-3253023785336399475</id><published>2012-01-24T04:00:14.647-05:00</published><updated>2012-01-24T04:00:14.647-05:00</updated><title type='text'>No updates on your blog! Is everything fine?</title><summary type='text'>No updates on your blog! Is everything fine?</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/7717293291877748703/comments/default/3253023785336399475'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/7717293291877748703/comments/default/3253023785336399475'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/12/present.html?showComment=1327395614647#c3253023785336399475' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/12/present.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-7717293291877748703' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/7717293291877748703' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1342808921'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-8732398483604133849</id><published>2011-12-11T09:58:45.423-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-11T09:58:45.423-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Thank you for sharing that story. I&amp;#39;m glad you...</title><summary type='text'>Thank you for sharing that story. I&amp;#39;m glad your sister was wise enough and kind enough to send your mom&amp;#39;s keychain to you. I&amp;#39;m sure you&amp;#39;ll be a great leader and help many people who are just like your mom.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You know you&amp;#39;ve already helped me. I never would have joined Weight Watchers if it weren&amp;#39;t for a couple people I &amp;quot;know&amp;quot; - either in real life or </summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/7717293291877748703/comments/default/8732398483604133849'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/7717293291877748703/comments/default/8732398483604133849'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/12/present.html?showComment=1323615525423#c8732398483604133849' title=''/><author><name>SUEB0B</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16301963922769609715</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='18' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_hB8IIP38t1g/SplDuXf-VFI/AAAAAAAAAnY/v8Cw5MiL_l0/S220/Suebobstapler.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/12/present.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-7717293291877748703' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/7717293291877748703' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-2066679782'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-584064176131812814</id><published>2011-12-05T03:40:11.692-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-05T03:40:11.692-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Please keep writing! You are an inspiration for al...</title><summary type='text'>Please keep writing! You are an inspiration for all.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/7717293291877748703/comments/default/584064176131812814'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/7717293291877748703/comments/default/584064176131812814'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/12/present.html?showComment=1323074411692#c584064176131812814' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/12/present.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-7717293291877748703' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/7717293291877748703' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-975983641'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-7633328044618827583</id><published>2011-12-03T10:21:39.693-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-03T10:21:39.693-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Oh, what a story about your Mom. I wish my Mom cou...</title><summary type='text'>Oh, what a story about your Mom. I wish my Mom could have had that. I think she loved my Dad throughout their marriage, but he really didn&amp;#39;t make her very happy. They were just not well suited to one another. How wonderful that your Mom found such happiness in her last years. I think you&amp;#39;re right about it being a choice. I think I&amp;#39;ll get there, but like you said, I&amp;#39;m still sorting</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/7717293291877748703/comments/default/7633328044618827583'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/7717293291877748703/comments/default/7633328044618827583'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/12/present.html?showComment=1322925699693#c7633328044618827583' title=''/><author><name>Blog Antagonist</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09378330862349859998</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-1-4lMOrg5hQ/TZ81QqOeJ8I/AAAAAAAAAso/pikfk6ZxbDI/s220/Blogprofile1.bmp'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/12/present.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-7717293291877748703' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/7717293291877748703' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-96549027'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2469466803374293164</id><published>2011-12-03T02:07:21.551-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-03T02:07:21.551-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Sorry for typos....damn droid thinks it&amp;#39;s a sm...</title><summary type='text'>Sorry for typos....damn droid thinks it&amp;#39;s a smart phone....</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/7717293291877748703/comments/default/2469466803374293164'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/7717293291877748703/comments/default/2469466803374293164'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/12/present.html?showComment=1322896041551#c2469466803374293164' title=''/><author><name>Dyann</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/12/present.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-7717293291877748703' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/7717293291877748703' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1135163359'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-7807345960758340487</id><published>2011-12-03T02:03:06.839-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-03T02:03:06.839-05:00</updated><title type='text'>You have no idea how many times your words have br...</title><summary type='text'>You have no idea how many times your words have brought me comfort, laughter, tears, enlightenment....  I&amp;#39;m happy to have brought you a sliver of comfort in the form of empathy.  Your life and mine are remarkably similar...and the tragedy of our mothers&amp;#39; departures is no exception.  My parents struggled through their marriage (no fighting, just an ocean of deep silent resentment) but </summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/7717293291877748703/comments/default/7807345960758340487'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/7717293291877748703/comments/default/7807345960758340487'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/12/present.html?showComment=1322895786839#c7807345960758340487' title=''/><author><name>Dyann</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/12/present.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-7717293291877748703' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/7717293291877748703' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1135163359'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-4655747415271129489</id><published>2011-12-02T22:34:58.007-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-02T22:34:58.007-05:00</updated><title type='text'>&amp;lt;3 &amp;lt;3 &amp;lt;3 &amp;lt;3 &amp;lt;3</title><summary type='text'>&amp;lt;3 &amp;lt;3 &amp;lt;3 &amp;lt;3 &amp;lt;3</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/7717293291877748703/comments/default/4655747415271129489'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/7717293291877748703/comments/default/4655747415271129489'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/12/present.html?showComment=1322883298007#c4655747415271129489' title=''/><author><name>Just Words On A Page</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01874228350687436901</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_b1lw7j_5gKA/TC5S0za7F2I/AAAAAAAAADY/8AQCeCoBrX4/S220/button-1.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/12/present.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-7717293291877748703' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/7717293291877748703' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-2145331867'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-7108598834310973182</id><published>2011-12-02T13:13:28.382-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-02T13:13:28.382-05:00</updated><title type='text'>GK, I would like to hear your story. I don&amp;#39;t m...</title><summary type='text'>GK, I would like to hear your story. I don&amp;#39;t mind you sharing it here, but if you&amp;#39;re not comfortable with that, I hope you will share it somewhere. As I told Dyann, hearing from other women who have lost their Mothers really helps.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/7717293291877748703/comments/default/7108598834310973182'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/7717293291877748703/comments/default/7108598834310973182'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/12/present.html?showComment=1322849608382#c7108598834310973182' title=''/><author><name>Blog Antagonist</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09378330862349859998</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-1-4lMOrg5hQ/TZ81QqOeJ8I/AAAAAAAAAso/pikfk6ZxbDI/s220/Blogprofile1.bmp'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/12/present.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-7717293291877748703' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/7717293291877748703' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-96549027'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-7958249704081411673</id><published>2011-12-02T13:12:36.794-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-02T13:12:36.794-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Dyann...your words mean more than you know. You&amp;#3...</title><summary type='text'>Dyann...your words mean more than you know. You&amp;#39;ve always been so kind and so honest in sharing your thoughts and feelings. I appreciate everyone&amp;#39;s comments, but knowing that someone else who has lost their mother can identify with something I&amp;#39;m feeling really makes me feel less alone. Thank you.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/7717293291877748703/comments/default/7958249704081411673'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/7717293291877748703/comments/default/7958249704081411673'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/12/present.html?showComment=1322849556794#c7958249704081411673' title=''/><author><name>Blog Antagonist</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09378330862349859998</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-1-4lMOrg5hQ/TZ81QqOeJ8I/AAAAAAAAAso/pikfk6ZxbDI/s220/Blogprofile1.bmp'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/12/present.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-7717293291877748703' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/7717293291877748703' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-96549027'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-4135747829543574334</id><published>2011-12-02T13:08:05.683-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-02T13:08:05.683-05:00</updated><title type='text'>All the time I am conflicted by my motivation to p...</title><summary type='text'>All the time I am conflicted by my motivation to please/honor my late mother and my disappointment that I&amp;#39;ll never have the chance to see the pride on her face.  It&amp;#39;s a bitter pill....  I know it&amp;#39;s no consolation, but I&amp;#39;m certain what would bring your mom the most joy is knowing you are sustained by the ability to be proud of yourself.  I tell my kids all the time that I&amp;#39;m </summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/7717293291877748703/comments/default/4135747829543574334'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/7717293291877748703/comments/default/4135747829543574334'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/12/present.html?showComment=1322849285683#c4135747829543574334' title=''/><author><name>Dyann</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/12/present.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-7717293291877748703' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/7717293291877748703' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1918012623'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-8271936582404103941</id><published>2011-12-02T11:31:28.946-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-02T11:31:28.946-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Beautifully told.  Hugs to you!</title><summary type='text'>Beautifully told.  Hugs to you!</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/7717293291877748703/comments/default/8271936582404103941'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/7717293291877748703/comments/default/8271936582404103941'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/12/present.html?showComment=1322843488946#c8271936582404103941' title=''/><author><name>Wisconsin Mommy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12285772583714115766</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_nwmyOxkJxXs/SqwdWRclG9I/AAAAAAAAAnU/s8wTLhTDhhc/S220/avitar.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/12/present.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-7717293291877748703' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/7717293291877748703' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1343329797'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-6111010801795544097</id><published>2011-12-02T11:14:59.254-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-02T11:14:59.254-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Sitting here with tears running down my face for y...</title><summary type='text'>Sitting here with tears running down my face for you... &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have a missing-mom story for you too, but will not post it here, because I don&amp;#39;t want to take away from your wonderful words.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Many hugs to you, Christina.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/7717293291877748703/comments/default/6111010801795544097'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/7717293291877748703/comments/default/6111010801795544097'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/12/present.html?showComment=1322842499254#c6111010801795544097' title=''/><author><name>Gurukarm</name><uri>http://karmamusings.wordpress.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2011/12/present.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-7717293291877748703' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/7717293291877748703' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-397817187'/></entry></feed>
