<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post9093864460352659899..comments</id><updated>2009-11-18T17:44:47.215-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Blogs Are Stupid: I Can't Believe I'm Doing This, but....</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/feeds/9093864460352659899/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html'/><author><name>Blog Antagonist</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09378330862349859998</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>14</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-8068364427316908219</id><published>2009-11-18T17:44:47.215-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-18T17:44:47.215-05:00</updated><title type='text'>i read all the time and you won't know me either. ...</title><summary type='text'>i read all the time and you won&amp;#39;t know me either.  i don&amp;#39;t know that i&amp;#39;ve ever commented, because your fabulous OTHER readers have almost always all ready said what i wanted to, only better and more elloquently.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;i am friends with Nina, does that get me points?</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/8068364427316908219'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/8068364427316908219'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html?showComment=1258584287215#c8068364427316908219' title=''/><author><name>jodi</name><uri>http://www.facebook.com/people/Christina-Snortum-Shaver/1574101696#/home.php?ref=logo</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-9093864460352659899' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/9093864460352659899' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-6200197857384127536</id><published>2009-11-17T13:43:52.869-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-17T13:43:52.869-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Congrats on the new gig!  And how are the eyeballs...</title><summary type='text'>Congrats on the new gig!  And how are the eyeballs?!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Will you friend me, Friend?</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/6200197857384127536'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/6200197857384127536'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html?showComment=1258483432869#c6200197857384127536' title=''/><author><name>Trenches of Mommyhood</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07257891014401157085</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-9093864460352659899' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/9093864460352659899' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-9017745175475838938</id><published>2009-11-17T11:40:09.105-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-17T11:40:09.105-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Sent you an email my dear. 

Hope to see you on th...</title><summary type='text'>Sent you an email my dear. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hope to see you on there shortly!</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/9017745175475838938'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/9017745175475838938'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html?showComment=1258476009105#c9017745175475838938' title=''/><author><name>Riebee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13695207251732849739</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-9093864460352659899' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/9093864460352659899' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-6110209204357385728</id><published>2009-11-17T05:17:10.026-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-17T05:17:10.026-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Hi BA,

I'd like to "friend you" on Facebook but I...</title><summary type='text'>Hi BA,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&amp;#39;d like to &amp;quot;friend you&amp;quot; on Facebook but I&amp;#39;m so incredibly tech savvy that I can&amp;#39;t seem to find your Facebook page. I&amp;#39;m on Facebook, thanks to the kids, but I only half way know what I&amp;#39;m doing most of the time. I searched under Blog Antagonist but nothing came up. How do I find you??</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/6110209204357385728'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/6110209204357385728'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html?showComment=1258453030026#c6110209204357385728' title=''/><author><name>Lucy's Mom</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06905271430360047256</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-9093864460352659899' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/9093864460352659899' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-758494385110434427</id><published>2009-11-16T21:51:30.847-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-16T21:51:30.847-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I've only commented a few times...AND I've held ou...</title><summary type='text'>I&amp;#39;ve only commented a few times...AND I&amp;#39;ve held out on Facebook so far anyway--so I hope you do keep this blog semi-active. &lt;br /&gt;Congratulations on all of the changes in your life, however! I&amp;#39;ll miss the frequent updates, but life goes forward and change is part of life.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/758494385110434427'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/758494385110434427'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html?showComment=1258426290847#c758494385110434427' title=''/><author><name>SandyG</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-9093864460352659899' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/9093864460352659899' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-719354669392045317</id><published>2009-11-16T21:47:52.911-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-16T21:47:52.911-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Oh, me too, I've been reading your posts for years...</title><summary type='text'>Oh, me too, I&amp;#39;ve been reading your posts for years but I&amp;#39;ve never commented on your blog. I think we even exchanged a few encouraging emails back in the day (and I&amp;#39;m sure you know what I mean). I bet you&amp;#39;d be weirded out if I sent you a friend request even though we have at least one friend in common. Maybe you could have a &amp;quot;restricted list&amp;quot; or a fan page?</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/719354669392045317'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/719354669392045317'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html?showComment=1258426072911#c719354669392045317' title=''/><author><name>A long-time reader</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-9093864460352659899' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/9093864460352659899' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-4695654688950490025</id><published>2009-11-16T21:15:25.673-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-16T21:15:25.673-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I, too, have been reading for 2 years and only com...</title><summary type='text'>I, too, have been reading for 2 years and only comment here and there - under the name ANONYMOUS.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Your blog has been one of my favorite reads during this time and, although I understand your hiatus, I have to admit I am sad when I see an old post when I check BAS each day.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You don&amp;#39;t know me at all, like I said I&amp;#39;ve only commented about 20 times or so in the past 2 </summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/4695654688950490025'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/4695654688950490025'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html?showComment=1258424125673#c4695654688950490025' title=''/><author><name>Bunny</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-9093864460352659899' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/9093864460352659899' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-5196893414617293895</id><published>2009-11-16T20:39:18.982-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-16T20:39:18.982-05:00</updated><title type='text'>See, this is the problem with being a reader inste...</title><summary type='text'>See, this is the problem with being a reader instead of a reader-commenter.  You have no clue who I am.  Totally my fault, but still. Bummer.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/5196893414617293895'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/5196893414617293895'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html?showComment=1258421958982#c5196893414617293895' title=''/><author><name>The Woman Formerly Known as Jenn</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03779452548906403839</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-9093864460352659899' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/9093864460352659899' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-8865523789705290840</id><published>2009-11-16T14:44:51.559-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-16T14:44:51.559-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I would love to be your friend.</title><summary type='text'>I would love to be your friend.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/8865523789705290840'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/8865523789705290840'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html?showComment=1258400691559#c8865523789705290840' title=''/><author><name>Nachama</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14833663722898796949</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-9093864460352659899' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/9093864460352659899' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-7073705125631864072</id><published>2009-11-16T07:36:30.102-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-16T07:36:30.102-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I have found that FB really helps with this!  And ...</title><summary type='text'>I have found that FB really helps with this!  And congrats on the new gig. You are doing something right dear! :)</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/7073705125631864072'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/7073705125631864072'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html?showComment=1258374990102#c7073705125631864072' title=''/><author><name>Amy Sue Nathan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13854920309673361956</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-9093864460352659899' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/9093864460352659899' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2244683297969295152</id><published>2009-11-16T00:50:23.089-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-16T00:50:23.089-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I don't know you that well to even ask. I'm a new ...</title><summary type='text'>I don&amp;#39;t know you that well to even ask. I&amp;#39;m a new reader. :) (and on FB too)</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/2244683297969295152'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/2244683297969295152'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html?showComment=1258350623089#c2244683297969295152' title=''/><author><name>Margaret</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17197599882756386184</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-9093864460352659899' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/9093864460352659899' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-2435001568947847350</id><published>2009-11-15T23:12:15.853-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-15T23:12:15.853-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I think we are friends on facebook already, aren't...</title><summary type='text'>I think we are friends on facebook already, aren&amp;#39;t we?</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/2435001568947847350'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/2435001568947847350'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html?showComment=1258344735853#c2435001568947847350' title=''/><author><name>flutter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11828689769747130419</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-9093864460352659899' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/9093864460352659899' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-1125711326153401560</id><published>2009-11-15T21:07:17.954-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-15T21:07:17.954-05:00</updated><title type='text'>On Facebook,you can add your friends to a list the...</title><summary type='text'>On Facebook,you can add your friends to a list then change the privacy setting for that list. So you don&amp;#39;t have to share any info you don&amp;#39;t feel comfortable sharing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Good luck with your new and wonderful opportunities!</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/1125711326153401560'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/1125711326153401560'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html?showComment=1258337237954#c1125711326153401560' title=''/><author><name>omy3boyz</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13605086895827049386</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-9093864460352659899' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/9093864460352659899' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-4078627433144828337</id><published>2009-11-15T20:45:51.042-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-15T20:45:51.042-05:00</updated><title type='text'>already done, my friend. :)</title><summary type='text'>already done, my friend. :)</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/4078627433144828337'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/9093864460352659899/comments/default/4078627433144828337'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html?showComment=1258335951042#c4078627433144828337' title=''/><author><name>slouchy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05602868040771218507</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blogantagonist.com/2009/11/i-cant-believe-im-doing-this-but.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20982663.post-9093864460352659899' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/20982663/posts/default/9093864460352659899' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>